Blessing is Molestation by the Church

According to the Bible everyone is sinful except The God. Only The God himself is Holy and Pure. I sometimes wonder why on earth the child becomes sinful just because the person is born in this world… Aside of that notion, people go to church seeking security, protection, comfortness, and forgiveness. But, But, But… It seems The Holy Church fails to serve its children [ Ishould not generalise].

As you know, every year we hear some sort of child sexual abuse or molestation by the Catholic Church, and they always deny it. Why on earth those priests are entitled to molest / abuse children (girls, boys) and be left with no charges. Priests are taking advantage of children who can not defend themselves. So it seems to me protection, security they should be receiving is replaced with molestation, and sexual abuse. Perhaps, molestation and abuse are the way The Church runs its function/service.

Priests should take their responsibility for their wrong doing. Those priests who should have been like their Father, who should have provided security and blessing instead they fulfilled their own unmet needs, I rather say they should not have been a priest. What is the criteria for becoming a priest? To molest a child? If then, it makes sense.

I wonder, whether those priests know the consequences of the sexual abuse? Those victims left with lifetime trauma just because they trusted the Church, the Priests. They carry the pain, memory rest of their life. Victims desperately try to cope with the pain which may lead to different types of [abnormal] behaviours, disorders such as eating disorders, self-inflicting injuries, inability to have sex, or engaging in sex often, poor body image, generalized separation from and disregard for one's body, dissociation, sexual impurity, and gender-identity issues. Trust is big problem for them, because once upon a time “someone very close” have broken their trust, therefore it becomes very difficult to maintain trust with people. They also suffer from numerious emotional pain such as helplessness, feeling dirty, confusion, powerlessness and pain. They usually tend to invalidate those negative emotions which is a way of self-protection leading to self-blame and self-hatred. Negative self image perspectives come into play with "I am bad, no one loves me, no one could love me, I am unlovable, and dirty. It's my fault, I am horrible."

It was their pay off for trusting the church, by being part of the Christianity. If The God ever existed, or exist He would not have liked what his “children” done to others, who supposed to be also His children.

Why Catholic Church refuses to take action? They can not even admit their misbehaviour/wrong doing? Whilst the victims carrying burden/trauma on their shoulder rest of their life, the priests left with impunity. It is Crime Against Children. Where is Justice? Does not it include THE CHURCH?

When I was watching BBC news, those some Catholics said “those victims should forgive”. How dare they say that? How dare they request forgiveness for what they have done?